Whether we accept it or not, all women living in today’s time would be unconsciously embodying some undesirable masculine traits.
There is nothing wrong with having the right balance of some contrasting traits but sometimes these masculine behaviors keep us from becoming more deeply connected with our feminine essence.
So, in this article we are going to go over some masculine behaviors you should avoid so that you can truly embrace your elegant, feminine side.
Don’t make the first move
Men have been designed to enjoy the rush and thrill of chasing a female and trying to win them over.
But as our society is becoming obsessed over dominant masculine traits, many females feel the urge to take the lead in the relationship.
This might initially sound thrilling and out-of-the-ordinary for both; but very soon men start losing their interest in something they can get without effort.
That’s why a classy, feminine lady might show her interest but she would never try to take the lead or make the first move.
She knows her worth and knows that men like the idea of pursuing her, so she just plays her part.
Don’t be flashy
This new craze of showing off your wealth and luxuries over social media and in real life was once common among the males. Still it’s not what a classy man would do.
However, now we see more and more females falling into this trap of showing off.
But the elegant and classy women are so secure in their own essence that they never feel the need to flash what they have.
In simple words, they are not hungry for outer validation because their sense of validation comes from their inner confidence.
Think before you speak
I have seen a lot of women using all kinds of wrong words and phrases just to look cooler or to be perceived as fun.
If you want to be a classy feminine lady, then cursing is strictly a no-go area!
When you use poor language and all kinds of slang, it doesn’t prove that you are cool. It just shows that you are not educated enough to watch what you speak.
Accept their vulnerability
Men also have emotions and just because society teaches them to mask those feelings doesn’t mean they vanish into thin air.
A Lot of times, males are looking for female counterparts whom they can open up to. They want to feel protected and heard while showing their vulnerable side.
So, classy feminine ladies are empathetic and give the other party a safe space to talk about their true feelings.
Let them spoil you
Men like the idea of spoiling their women with surprises and so many other things. It’s a part of how they are wired by nature.
However, as more and more women are trying to be “strong and independent”, they are trying to take lead roles in their relationships.
To be a classy feminine lady, you will have to put aside this urge to dominate and let them spoil you at times. There is nothing wrong with feeling pampered and cared for.
Just sit back, relax and dwell in your magnetic feminine aura!
