I’m just gonna say it – embodying your feminine energy is not always sexy and glamorous.

Since starting my feminine awakening and my journey of embodying my feminine energy, I’ve grown A LOT.

And I’m not just talking about the shiny, glamorous kind that you see on social media.

I’m not talking about the bubble baths, the manicure and pedicures, and lazy vacations to exotic places whilst money fall on your lap…

I’m talking about ego deaths.

Questioning who I am.

Leaning into new beliefs about worthiness, and having the audacity to be my authentic self through the entire journey.

I’ve had to let go of more beliefs around the things that were holding me back than I ever thought was possible. 

I’ve had to question all my beliefs around how I live, how I work, how I relate to others, and how I see myself in the world.

Embodying your feminine energy is SO glamorized these days.

We make inner work look so sexy and fun. It’s quotable. It’s shown on social media like is so easy to do.

Like putting on a dress, heels, make-up and styling your hair makes you feel instantly feminine. It can yes, but for a short period of time.

But REAL growth? LASTING growth? The kind that people aren’t talking about?

You’re simply not doing it right if you don’t feel downright overwhelmed sometimes.

When your foundation is shattered and the walls around your comfort zone are knocked down, and you feel exposed… it doesn’t feel good.

In fact, it feels like a giant wave of uncertainty and fear.

You question a LOT of things, like your past romantic choices and you realize how they led you to being used and abused.

You question your relationship with money and how it was always up and down, which had to do with times you felt safe and abundant versus times you felt broke and unsafe. So you thought the key was to work harder and get exhausted.

You question your work, why you accepted to do work that killed your soul, hustle like crazy to the point of sacrificing your health, and never felt fullfilled.

You question your self worth, how you always tried to please others and seek external validation.

And you question how you ignored how you feel and your own needs never listening to yourself or your intuition, because you were always trying to please others or accomplish goals.

The inevitable discomfort of the personal growth required to take you to a soft and empowered feminine self caused more women to QUIT their journey than you even know. 

Or take easy way outs like marrying a wealthy man they don’t even feel attracted to in order to “secure the bag”, and then feel emotionally dead inside.

Why? 

Because your nervous system is hardwired to keep you safe and often deems discomfort as danger. 

Perhaps you’ve felt some of this discomfort already. 

But here’s what I found. 

Right around the corner, when you’re least expecting it, when you’re in the dark depths of the uncertainty, you’re greeted with a BREAKTHROUGH.

The breakthrough is RIGHT THERE… you just don’t see it yet.

Because when you go through the discomfort, and through all the rewiring it will lead you to you embodying your soft and empowered feminine energy, the gap between your breakdown and your breakthrough gets smaller. 

You have to go within and FEEL all that needs to be felt!

All your suppressed emotions and trapped energy needs to come out into the OPEN!

You need to feel the discomfort, cry your heart out if needed in order to release it.

Because is only when you let go of the heaviness inside that you make space for new energy and softness to arise.

In other words, remove the armour you have been wearing for years and show your light into the world!

You’re able to continue on with confidence and a clear path forward, in spite of having never walked it before. 

Because the only way is through.

There is NO easy way outs through marrying someone wealthy just to get the bag that will give you the soul fullfilment of finding your true self and becoming an empowered feminine self.

Especially because no one talks about the consequences of cutting corners, because… is not pretty!

The thing is, YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!

Being in your feminine energy, the abundance, the money, the fulfilment, the joy, a masculine loving and provider partner, and your wildest desires coming true.

But it is only possible when you stop cutting corners.

When you respect yourself enough to walk in integrity.

You have it in you.

Don’t let anyone tell you that you need to become a bougie “pick me” and use performing femininity to get what you want in life. That is disempowering AF!

No matter what you’ve been told, what you’ve experienced, and how little others believe in you right now…. You can be, have, and do anything you want in this lifetime.

You can be in a soft yet empowering feminine energy, feeling awesome, living life in YOUR own terms and choosing only what brings you joy and happiness, discarding all the rest.

All you have to do is say YES. 

Bet on yourself, commit to the growth, and watch your life unfold in the most beautiful way.

This is your time.

Your quantum leap is just on the other side of the comfort zone you are in now.

I have been there myself and I guide you through all this in the program Embody Your Sensual Feminine Energy. Click here to know more.